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Example prompt 1: What trait in other people triggers a reaction in you that feels larger than the situation? What might that reaction protect?
8 Shadow Work Prompts Examples
Use these examples to study structure, specificity, tone, and variation. They are demonstrations—not claims about a real person or organization unless the example itself makes that explicit.
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What to notice in the examples
Strong shadow work prompts vary the mental task instead of repeating one formula, include enough specificity to trigger concrete writing, and remain open enough that different writers can produce genuinely different responses.
- A clear writing action rather than a vague topic.
- A concrete constraint, question, image, audience, or situation.
- Enough openness for original content and voice.
- Variation across observation, invention, reflection, argument, description, or scene work when appropriate.
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Example prompt 2: Which version of yourself do you work hardest to prove you are not?
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Example prompt 3: When do you become defensive before anyone has actually criticized you?
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Example prompt 4: What kind of praise is hardest for you to accept, and what assumption makes it uncomfortable?
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Example prompt 5: Describe a recent moment of envy without judging it. What did the envy reveal that you wanted?
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Example prompt 6: What behavior do you excuse in yourself but resent in other people?
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Example prompt 7: Which emotion do you most quickly turn into another emotion—sadness into anger, fear into humor, uncertainty into control?
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Example prompt 8: What boundary do you wish someone else would set so you would not have to set it yourself?
Keep the underlying decision or pattern, then replace the subject, evidence, relationship, constraints, and tone with details that belong to your situation. If your final line still works after swapping only one noun, it may be too close to the example.