Obituary Examples & Writing Templates
An obituary is both a public record and a portrait. Accuracy comes first; warmth comes from carefully chosen details rather than exaggerated praise.
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Obituary for a Mother
An obituary for a mother should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Father
An obituary for a father should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Husband
An obituary for a husband should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Wife
An obituary for a wife should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Partner
An obituary for a partner should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Son
An obituary for a son should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Daughter
An obituary for a daughter should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Brother
An obituary for a brother should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Sister
An obituary for a sister should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Grandmother
An obituary for a grandmother should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Grandfather
An obituary for a grandfather should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Grandparent
An obituary for a grandparent should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Friend
An obituary for a friend should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Best Friend
An obituary for a best friend should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations,…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Aunt
An obituary for a aunt should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Uncle
An obituary for a uncle should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Child
An obituary for a child should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Coworker
An obituary for a coworker should balance factual accuracy with a recognizable sense of the person. Verify names, relationships, dates, locations, and…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Father-in-Law
An obituary for a father-in-law should balance verified facts, family-approved relationship language, and a recognizable portrait. Confirm every proper noun and service…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Mother-in-Law
An obituary for a mother-in-law should balance verified facts, family-approved relationship language, and a recognizable portrait. Confirm every proper noun and service…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Baby or Infant
An obituary for a baby or infant should balance verified facts, family-approved relationship language, and a recognizable portrait. Confirm every proper noun…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Pastor or Clergy Member
An obituary for a pastor or clergy member should balance verified facts, family-approved relationship language, and a recognizable portrait. Confirm every proper…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Person With No Funeral or Private Service
An obituary for a person with no funeral or private service should balance verified facts, family-approved relationship language, and a recognizable portrait.…
Open guide →Obituary writingObituary for a Short Obituary
An obituary for a short obituary should balance verified facts, family-approved relationship language, and a recognizable portrait. Confirm every proper noun and…
Open guide →An obituary has two jobs: preserve facts and show a person
Accuracy comes before style. Confirm names, dates, family relationships, organizations, service details, donation links, military information, and titles with the people authorized to approve the notice.
After the facts are stable, choose a few details that make the person recognizable: work they cared about, a community role, a routine, a value, a hobby, a place, or the way they treated people.
Different destinations need different lengths. A paid newspaper notice may need compression, while a funeral-home or family memorial page can include a fuller life narrative and additional photographs.
Treat publication as permanent. Obituaries are often copied, indexed, screenshotted, and shared. Avoid home addresses, private phone numbers, unnecessary medical details, and information about living relatives that the family does not want public.
Is it true? Is it appropriate to the relationship? Is it private enough for the channel? Does it reduce rather than add pressure? Can you replace one generic phrase with one real detail?